Hello! My scene name is Amie Little. Welcome to my blog! or more accurately, my FAQ collection. I’ve chosen a rather unconventional life path. People are curious and I don’t blame them! Because of the nature of the topics under discussion I’ve broken the blog into two sections. This is the family-friendly side that considers the topic of being a Life Coach. What is a Life Coach, and how does it differ from a therapist? And what the heck is a Kinky Life Coach?
I started in the BDSM / Fetish scene in 1984 as a submissive. I was lucky enough to be trained by some wonderful Masters, living a fully immersed 24/7 lifestyle. I loved it, I was good at it, and for a while I truly was “living the dream”. Time passed, and eventually I started mentoring younger, less experienced practitioners just as I had once been trained. But what I found was that many of them felt guilt and shame at being part of the scene at all. They struggled with the very desires that drove them to join us, almost to the point of madness. Instead of teaching them the proper use of safewords, I’d often end up sitting in the nearest 24 hour coffee shop. I’d just listen to them cry and try to talk them to a happier, healthier mental outlook.
After a lot of soul-searching I went pro six years ago. It was one of the best decisions I’ve ever made! Helping someone go from hating a part of themselves to openly accepting that same part is wonderful. I’d still be doing it full time, except that I just moved from a very large metro area with a thriving kinky scene to a somewhat smaller metro area where I don’t know a soul. I’m not sure what I’m going to do next. Move online? Hang up my stilettos for good? I’m not certain. But even if I never see another client it was great while it lasted.
On a more serious note – are you struggling to accept your nature? Maybe feeling a little guilty? (maybe more than a little?) Are you wondering if being kinky is just a passing phase? Do you assume you’ll grow out of it? I understand. A lot of us feel that way. I did. If you have casual questions I’m happy to explain the ins and outs of the scene, so to speak. If you need someone to talk to long term, I’d love to help. Though I’m semi-retired now, the best thing a Life Coach can offer is a little bit of perspective. Here’s me:
Administrators and powers that be please note – while I am a Kinky Life Coach, the subject of this blog is NOT adult in nature. I’ll use phrases such as “BDSM” but the descriptions are not graphic, which is why I did not flag the content as “mature”. If you wish to visit my more explicit discussion, please Click here – Amie’s Kinky Corner. Thanks!